You are invited to love yourself so deeply, take such good care of yourself, that others can see how deeply you deserve to be loved. Especially to love the not so likable parts, even at times when you don’t feel loved so much by others. Self love is not about being selfish, but exactly the opposite. It’s about taking good care of ourselves so that we can offer the best us to the world. As cliché as the saying “you have to love yourself first before you can deeply love others” sounds, it makes sense that the more things we accept and learn to love in ourselves – the better we feel in our skins, perfect or not – the more things we’ll accept and learn to love in others.